Thursday, January 31, 2013

Heel Height

Nathan is definitely taller than I am. In this shot from our engagement pictures, you can see he easily has four or five inches on me—taller but not towering over me.



If I wear a normal-sized heel, I'm just shorter than Nathan by an inch or two. I'm totally comfortable with this, and wear heels often. Would I wear a pair of shoes like this with a 6 and 1/2 inch heel?


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Well, probably not. I mean, I'm not even sure I could walk in those, but that's beside the point!

Now look at this picture of my whole family at Lake Superior this summer...


Personal photo / Nathan, me, Emily, Dillon, Abigail, David

Ok, so maybe it's a slight incline. But it gets my point across—I'm definitely the shortest in the family! And Nathan is pretty close in height to both of my sisters.

In fact, throw a pair of three or four-inch heels on either Emily or Abigail and I'm pretty sure he'd be looking up at them. Nathan's brothers (the groomsmen) aren't necessarily tall either. Now, I'm not saying it would be a huge deal if they wore heels, but we're definitely think of going with a flat sandal. I'm pretty sure they'd be more comfortable like that anyway!

If they wear a more casual sandal, what should I wear? I was leaning towards heels at first, but now I love the idea of being able to walk around all day no problem, not trip on my dress, be comfortable, match my sisters...

Friday, January 25, 2013

Flashback Friday: The Ring

I've already talked about my perfect proposal and the jealousy that inevitably creeps in when you compare yourself to others. Because what's right for you is almost certainly not right for someone else. Even when someone tells you "Oh, that's the exact ring I want!" (that happened this weekend), that doesn't mean their story is anything like yours—or should be!

I already mentioned I knew the proposal was coming—well, I also knew what the ring looked like. Way back in June I went and tried on rings with a friend. I told the lady at Kay's I was looking for a princess cut solitaire with a cathedral setting, and she showed me this ring.


Personal photo—The ring I preferred is on my right hand. In the second picture I'm wearing a similar but slightly bulkier ring on my left hand.

The jeweler wasn't pushy necessarily, but she definitely encouraged me to try on some other rings. I did, and each time I kept gravitating back to the simple solitaire. For me, once I figured out what I wanted, trying it on didn't make that much of a difference. It simply solidified how I had felt while looking at rings online, on other people, etc. So I sent the pictures to Nathan—not subtle at all, huh?

Nathan ordered the diamond and band separately from a jeweler friend, and I may have gotten some pictures along the way. Shh. I don't think people are supposed to know he sent me the original ring pictures!

Somehow, though, when I first saw the ring I wasn't thinking "Yep, this is the one I picked out." I was thinking "We're getting married!" And having a gorgeous ring was pretty cool too.


Personal photo—I think this picture turned out pretty well for a quick shot on my iPhone in front of the waterfall where we got engaged! Good memories.

Tuesday, January 22, 2013

Tangent Tuesday: A Moment of Silence

This post is in honor of my little red Honda Civic.

Born April 25, 1995.

Died January 20, 2013.


Dear Honda,

You lived a good, long life. Eighteen years is a long time in car years. Fifteen years of winters in Minnesota and Wisconsin—I know those were tough on you. And yet all you did was rust a little in complaint. I appreciate it.

You taught me how to drive stick. I actually don't always remember how to drive an automatic now after so many years of driving a manual. Now when I drive an automatic I always reach for the stick and occasionally slam my foot on the brake thinking it's the clutch. Oops. Sorry about that, Katie.

You didn't die at the greatest time. Sixty miles from Greenville or Charlotte in the middle of nowhere? On a Sunday morning when I'm standing on the side of the road in heels and a skirt? But you know what, I figure that's just payback for everything I put you through. You probably didn't like carrying four or five people all the way to Charlotte every Sunday, so it's only fitting you would die on one of those 240 mile trips.

Yes, I'm looking to buy another car right away—but it's not because I don't appreciate everything you did! After 210,000 miles I could never forget you.

The guy I'm selling you to is a good guy. He'll take care of you. I promise.

Love,
Laura

Thursday, January 17, 2013

Tissue Paper Flowers

Just a quick post today to show you a preview of a project my sisters and I worked on over Christmas. I knew from the beginning that our budget wouldn't allow for a huge flowers allowance. I toyed with the idea of buying flowers wholesale and just arranging them myself—but I discarded the idea after realizing that one, I'm not a florist and two, the week of the wedding is already going to be insanely busy with graduation. In fact, in the entire planning process, we have the most non-wedding events scheduled for the week of the wedding. Also known as—we need to get everything done ahead of time.

There are a lot of different ways and materials to make flowers. First up were crepe flowers.


Image via Design Improvised

I actually tried making these beautiful crepe flowers. Mine didn't turn out quite like the ones in the picture, however. First off, I couldn't find crepe paper sheets to experiment with, much less anything in coral. Second, I couldn't get the hang of manipulating the floral tape and wire. Basically, I'm lazy and this was too hard.

There's also paper flowers, which are beautiful (especially out of pages of books or music) and incredibly time consuming.


Image via Etsy / Photo by annemusingdesigns

Fabric flowers fall into the same category, although if purchased are more expensive than real flowers sometimes—check out the price on this one!


Image via Etsy / Photo by Katie Reim

That leaves tissue paper flowers. There are lots of tutorials out there, but we used this tutorial from Martha Stewart. Honestly, it was so, so easy. And it didn't take up days and days. We did both bridesmaids bouquets and my bouquet in less than two hours (two and a half episodes of Leverage). We also made some extra flowers and started on bigger poms for table and hanging decorations.

Do they look expensive and fancy? No. Is our wedding expensive and fancy? No, so it looks like they'll fit right in! Tissue paper flowers were perfect for the time we wanted to put in and the money we wanted to spend (about twenty dollars including way more tissue paper than I needed and floral wire). This is my sister modeling her bouquet. We used coral, light blue, and light yellow tissue paper. I think I'm going to add some green as well and wrap the stems nicely.



Oh, and my dad pulled out his electric drill to twist the wire on the handles. When my dad participates in wedding planning, he does it in a big way.

Wednesday, January 16, 2013

Dressing up the Dress

Remember, my dress looks like this:


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Gorgeous and classy! I do want to accent it though—without taking away from the elegance of the dress. I've seen a lot of pictures lately that look something like this.


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I'm looking at the necklaces, not the really awesome veils! I actually love the bling of these, although it might be a little too over the top. I'm looking for something that will bring a little color and excitement to the dress without screaming look at me. So maybe something in the wedding colors?


Necklace 1, Necklace 2, Necklace 3.

Unfortunately the first and third are sold out, but the middle one is only fifteen dollars. But is this really what I want to do? In my mind I can see it looking fabulous, but maybe I should stick with a traditional strand of pearls or diamond necklace...


Necklace 1. Necklace 2 is my grandmother's—this is my cousin's wife wearing it at their wedding.

I'm going to be honest, my preference is to wear a chunky but tasteful coral necklace. I feel like the casual day and simple dress call for something different than a pearl or diamond necklace, but I don't want to go overboard either. So tell me, what should I do?

Tuesday, January 15, 2013

Invitations Part I

Wow, could I make this post title any more boring? Sorry, I only have limited creativity and I think I already used up all of today's.

Before we actually talk about the invitations, I want to talk a little about what we're not doing. We're not doing a fancy invitation suite—that means no inner envelope, no cool pocketfold, no embossing or letterpress, no envelope liner. Am I a little sad about that? Maybe. There are some really cool invitation suites out there!





Mrs. Gloves, Mrs. Genie, Mrs. Turkey, and Mrs. Treasure.

For us though, I know this wasn't the way to go! I didn't have the time or energy to invest in a complex project myself or the money to pay someone to do it—or even to buy the supplies for a complicated DIY project. Instead of taking on something that would end up more work and stress than I could handle, we decided to go the simple route, although I do get to do a few small touches!

The next post will talk about the actual invitation, but I do get to share the part I'm really excited about now. I decided to order Mini Moo cards to include the RSVP information (we're using our wedding website to RSVP) and just to direct them to the website in general. Several brides have done this in the past, and it seems to have worked out well for them. Plus they only cost $19.99 and Nathan found a coupon for free shipping—always check Google before pressing submit!

They even came in the mail a few days before I expected!



I loved how cute the packaging was. We ordered four different pictures for the front. Just for fun—it's not like anyone will know they got design three or whatever!


They're half the size of a business card—I put the pencil in the picture for comparison's sake.


The back directs them to the website and of course credits our photographer.

So there you go! Part I. And maybe in the really cleverly named Part II maybe I'll get beyond the cute little cards...

Tangent Tuesday: Rainy Days


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It's looked like this for the last three or four weekdays here, and that is perfectly fine with me. Unfortunately, I've also had to work through all of these rainy days, but if I didn't I could think of a few things to do...


1. Fuzzy blanket; 2. cup of tea; 3. A Practical Wedding; 4. The Mission, The Men, and Me; 5. Goldfish Grahams; 6. George Winston; 7. iPad; 8. Flashpoint; 9. dark chocolate.

1. In reality, even though it's raining, it's actually too warm to wrap up in a blanket. So what if I may have to turn on the air conditioner to truly enjoy the experience?

2. Remember we talked about my worship of Tazo Tea last week? Also, I'm thinking about registering for some glass mugs just because those look so cool—but I really don't need any more mugs unfortunately.

3. I just finished reading A Practical Wedding by Meg Keene. My big draw from this book is that if you don't get anything else out of the book you should get this: if your wedding ends up with you married, it's a success—nothing else matters!

4. I'm currently reading The Mission, The Men, and Me by Pete Blaber. You know, sometimes you just have to suck it up and read a book that isn't necessarily about one of your interests. Special Forces? Not my thing. But it means something to Nathan, so it's worth it.

5. Would it be inappropriate to register for Goldfish Grahams and hope everyone buys me those instead stuff I really need?

6. Yes, I love piano music. Especially George Winston. Either on Pandora or one of his albums—he's outstanding.

7. My iPad was a gift from my parents for my graduation and I love it! I don't use it as much as I did before I got my iPhone but it's perfect for reading blogs, skimming the Internet, and doing Crosswords. (Does this collage make me seem like I'm 60?)

8. Remember when we talked about enjoying your significant other's interests? Exhibit B: Flashpoint. After finishing Leverage, I needed a new show to watch.

9. No, I would never eat an entire bar of dark chocolate in bed.

Monday, January 14, 2013

Too Many Toasters

I mean, say you want to register for a toaster. You go to the Bed, Bath, & Beyond site and look up toasters—and get this.


Four pages of toasters—and with fifteen on each page that's over forty-five toasters. For people who have really specific tastes, this is probably awesome. Lots of choices! Customize your toaster! Heck, if you want you can get this toaster at $339.99.


Not only does this toaster have four extra-wide slots and an insulated stainless steel body, it has an auto shutoff and apparently a bell that rings when the toast is done.

To be honest I was just looking for a toaster that, you know, toasts bread. Like you put the bread in and a few minutes later it pops out warm and browned?

Obviously, this was just an example. I could have proven my point with cookie sheets or blenders—and don't even get me started on flatware. I know how to cook and actually enjoy cooking, but up until now I've either cooked out of my mom's kitchen or out of my fully equipped kitchen on campus. I don't have a brand preference and really have no idea what I even need. Basically, I was overwhelmed.

When putting together the basic items of the registry, I started with bridal registry checklists from sites like The Knot, Real Simple, and Bed, Bath, & Beyond. Although I definitely don't agree with all the items on these checklists—ahem, I've never heard of anyone registering for a snow blower before?—it gave me a good starting point. I was able to look through the items and come up with basics of things I needed. It was easy to see "Oh, I need to register for a vegetable peeler, ice cream scoop, etc." while disregarding the things I wasn't interested in—such as a bar cart or patio furniture. And somehow I managed to go from freaking out about too many toasters to having a basic kitchen registry.

Friday, January 11, 2013

Making Decisions is Awesome

After weeks of indecision and frustration (summarized here), I decided to narrow down the search. Remember, my dress is the J. CREW Sophia in ivory silk chiffon. I wanted something to match the simple style and flowy fabric. Simplest way to do that is to buy the bridesmaids dresses from
J. CREW as well.

Now, before I sound either overly preppy or made of money—remember I paid only a fraction of the cost for my dress, and as you'll see in this post my sisters got great deals as well. Buying the dresses here was a decision of convenience and availability!

In about ten minutes I scanned the J. CREW website and came up with four of their bridesmaids dress options that fit what I was looking for.


The J. CREW Mirabelle, Sinclair, Louisa, and Heidi.

Unfortunately, these dresses were still $250 or more. I found some great deals on eBay and other dress resale sites that made me think this could actually work—and then I found the sale section of the J. CREW site. First of all, I'm never buying anything full price again.

Second, I found the J. CREW Macie.


Note: I linked to the petite listing because the regular size listing doesn't show it on a model! However, it's also on sale in the regular sizes, although with limited colors. Which we can deal with for a $250 dress down to $70. That's even cheaper than I found it on resale sites online.

Now, while I absolutely loved that coral color... it just wasn't what my sisters wanted to wear. And you know what? That's ok! My sister Abigail happened to love the color gallery green which was available in her size.

Emily wasn't the biggest fan of the Macie, but she did love one of the options I had mentioned from the beginning—the Louisa, which also happened to be on sale in the color gallery green. Choosing an "off" color like gallery green turned out to be a great decision!

So here's what our final choices turned out to be. On the left is the Macie, on sale for $70–Abigail's dress. On the right is the Louisa, on sale for $130—Emily's dress.


This is going to force a slight adjustment in color—I'm basically going to replace the seafoam green in my original inspiration with this more of a kelly green. It's really not going to affect much. The bouquets (I promise I'm eventually going to blog about these!) are coral, light blue, and light yellow, all colors that will work great with kelly green. I hadn't really purchased anything else in green except the guys ties. When the dresses come, I'll see if the ties work with them. If not, I only paid $12, so I'll go out on the lookout for something else!

Flashback Friday: The Proposal

I already sorta kinda maybe posted about the proposal here. In that post I talk about how hard it is for me to talk about my proposal story—almost as if it's too personal to share. But I do want to elaborate on some of the elements I talk about in that post, some of those "so incredibly good, they'll always be there" memories.

Nathan and I literally sat down with our schedules and a calender to figure out a day that would work in the month of October. It went like this...

Me: I have class Monday and Thursday nights and Friday October 5th and Saturday the 6th. 
Nathan: I work Friday the 12th, Saturday the 13, Saturday the 20th, and Saturday the 27th.
Me: I have huge paper due the 15th, there's a concert on the 23rd...

Ok, you get it. It wasn't easy to find a day that would work. I ended up taking the afternoon of October 9th off work and Nathan skipped class—after choosing a day with no quizzes or tests. The ten-day forecast showed a beautiful 70 degree day and we had plans for a picnic in the same park we spent our one-year dating anniversary.

Guys, it was SO COLD. I was wearing a long-sleeved shirt, heavy fleece jacket, scarf, and gloves... and was wrapped in a blanket sitting on a blanket. Eating soup. Drinking hot chocolate. For South Carolina in October, this is an abnormality—we're talking about the same state where it was 70 degrees yesterday.


On the bright side, soup from Panera is really yummy. All we did was bum around the park all afternoon. It was awesome. We sat in the gazebo and ate and talked about how much pizza we ate the last time we were there. Walked around the lake. Watched the newest episode of Bones on my iPad. Sat around until I got too cold to sit around and then we headed back to Greenville to our favorite little park.


Little stream runs straight down the middle and pours off this rock into a pool.


This park is really only as wide as this picture, but it's so cute and secluded. During warm sunny days the park is packed with picnickers and photo shoots. On a day like today—you guessed it—we had the place to ourselves.

Yes—I knew it was coming. He didn't have the ring box in his pocket in Spartanburg. He put in his pocket before we left that park and unzipped his pocket when we got down to the base of the waterfall. Does that make it any less special? Absolutely not.

I didn't feel any "different" after the proposal. Like "OMG I'm engaged life is perfect!!!" We were content, together, and... cold. So basically exactly how we were before the proposal. And probably explains why we didn't spend much more time in the park before hopping in the car to go get some pizza. I was hungry—I like food and I'm not ashamed to admit it. So on to food, then, and telling family and friends.

Thursday, January 10, 2013

The Heart Hole Punch

Last night I was at Walmart with exactly five things on my list—Kleenex, Advil, new screen protectors for my iPhone, and thin ribbon and a hole punch for my invitations. Side note: Apparently EVERYONE got an iPhone for Christmas, because Walmart was completely out of screen protectors. And I just placed an order on Amazon and forgot to order more. Dang it.

So I found thin coral ribbon at 10 yards for $0.49 and grabbed two because that's all they had. I'll probably need more actually—for the invitations I need to talk about still. Then I searched all over the store for a hole punch. Turns out the hole punches are in the school supply section, not the craft section or the party section. I did find cute cookie cutters in the party section though.

I grabbed the basic, $0.97 hole punch and started walking towards the door. Then it hit me. My invitations would be so much cuter with a heart hole punch.

In about 0.02 seconds my mind was telling me "Well, I can't get the circle hole punch because the invitations would just look awful with circle holes but amazing with heart holes!" And all I could think about was how I have to have a heart hole punch. Of course, Walmart doesn't have a heart hole punch—at least not that I could find. But that's ok, back to my trusty friend the internet to find me a heart hole punch that could fulfill my obsession.

Amazon told me heart hole punches were at least $7.50 plus shipping. Cue budget guilt.

"Should I really pay TEN TIMES as much or more for a heart hole punch?" 

"I don't NEED it... it's nice but not necessary!"

"I should just buy the $0.97 hole punch and let my invitations look ugly."

Ok, so reality check.

1. My invitations would not look ugly with circle holes instead of heart holes. In fact, no one will even notice. Except me of course.

2. I have budgeted my expenses and have more than enough money in the "invitations" section to cover a heart hole punch.

So you know what? I bought a heart hole punch. Actually, I bought three hole punches—a heart punch, a star punch, and a circle punch. They look like this:


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I didn't buy them because I have to have them. I bought them because I think they would be a cool addition to our invitations, and I can afford them.

And that's ok. Not everything has to be the cheapest thing out there, and not everything has to be absolutely necessary to my project. You can always use hole punches in the future—and hey, these have cool purple handles!

Wednesday, January 9, 2013

You Have Bewitched Me

Name this movie: "You have bewitched me body and soul and I love you. And I never wish to be parted from you from this day on."

Did you guess Pride & Prejudice?


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Cheesy, maybe. But I have absolutely loved Pride & Prejudice since I first read the book—in middle school maybe? I've read it multiple times and seen both movies (of course!). I think it's such an amazing love story, and Keira Knightley is pretty amazing herself in the newer movie version.

But this post is actually about my first bridal shower! Initially when asked about having a shower with my church on New Years Day I was very hesitant. At that point I hadn't registered at all or even thought about having a shower. Fortunately I recuperated quickly and gathered some items into a registry. I'll have to post more about this, because this was and is way more difficult than I originally anticipated.

My mother and another woman from my church hosted the shower jointly. It was a brunch, and my mother cooked an incredible spread of food! Virginia did all of the amazing decorations—Pride & Prejudice themed, hence my opening.


She painted this print on canvas—too cute! The table centerpieces were stacked books with adorable tea pots and jars sitting on top of them and coral flowers to match my wedding colors. It was kind of like a dry run through for my wedding decorations.


Sorry this picture is so dark—photographer I am not, and all I have right now are my iPhone pictures. This is the place settings. The favors on each plate were Hershey kisses wrapped in pages of an old Pride & Prejudice book! She ripped the pages out, folded them in half with the kisses tucked inside, and sewed the edges to make a cute pocket.


My mom and lovely sisters cooked the food. I only took a picture of half of the table and the cupcakes, but we had mini muffins, sausage, breakfast pizza (so amazingly good!), carrot cupcakes, quiche, rolls, pumpkin French toast bake (to die for—so glad I got the recipe), and fresh fruit. Since it was a small church shower, that was more than enough food to feed the 20 or so ladies with their daughters who came. And it all tasted delicious.


I'm really mature, so I referred to the gift table as our "shrine table," complete with our engagement pictures and a candle lit in our honor. But in all seriousness—we were overwhelmed and very thankful for the many lovely gifts we received! I need to do another post soon about our registry, and when I do I'll share more.

I will say that to me the most uncomfortable part of the shower was opening the gifts. I am not naturally good in groups, and sitting in front of everyone opening gifts while they watch my reactions was out of my comfort zone. It's interesting—I can stand in front of a class and give a speech with little anxiety but when it comes to communicating personally with a group of my peers, my heartbeat skyrockets. I was nervous for the shower overall, but I really enjoyed getting to talk with many of these women, including my aunt and cousin. Some of them have known me and babysat me since I was three years old. And when the pressure was too much—well, I just escaped to the corner and colored pictures with the little girls at the shower.


Speaking of kids, check out these adorable girls (and baby boy!) who attended my shower—along with my lovely sisters and cousin. And a huge thank you to all who came and supported me, especially my mom and Virginia for hosting!

Tuesday, January 8, 2013

Tangent Tuesday: My Favorite Things

I've found that I don't like posting recaps of activities or events as much as I like writing about topics. Granted I don't have anything deep or meaningful to write about but hey, life isn't always complicated. Sometimes, it's just like The Sound of Music and about a few of our favorite things...


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And because I'm mildly obsessive compulsive and love lists, here's a list.

1. My iPhone and Mophie


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Well duh, I love my iPhone, Apple is amazing, blah blah blah. The major flaw with the iPhone though is that I can easily drain my battery completely by early evening—and plugging it in is either not possible or a total pain. For my birthday my parents bought me a Mophie Juice Pack Air which extends my battery pack by... a lot. I don't know, like half a day? All I know is at the end of the day I don't have search for my cord to keep my phone from shutting down. It's bulky, but that doesn't bother me. The one thing that would be neat is if Mophie came in other colors besides plain white—pink please?

2. Amazon

Amazon's not a thing? Who said Amazon can't be a thing? In wedding planning I've been using Amazon for EVERYTHING, and because Nathan has Amazon Prime we get free two-day shipping. So basically, I never leave my apartment to go to the store.

3. Tazo Tea

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Ok yes, I love Starbucks as much as the next girl. And I love carrying a Starbucks cup around with me all day. Do I love paying $4 a day for tea? No. (I don't drink coffee.) Good thing this tea is amazing. My favorites are Refresh and Zen—Passion is good but very very strong if you let it sit more than 0.00001 seconds. So is Organic Chai. p.s. I like my tea weak.

4. My Brooks Nightlife Running Jacket and Pro Compression Socks


Personal photo. Does this look like an outtake for a photo shoot? Thought so.

My three siblings and I all got the Brooks neon yellow Nightlife jacket for Christmas. I also got bright pink Pro Compression socks—and gave Emily and Nathan black Pro Compression socks. Hey, if it's a good product, buy more of it. Abigail, Emily, and I all sported our matching jackets on a (cold cold cold) run to Minneahaha Falls in Minneapolis and Nathan (taking the picture), Emily, and I also wore our compression socks. Love them. The jackets are reflective for running at night and the socks aid in blood flow and recovery.

5. Leverage


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This is a bittersweet one because just after I finally started watching and loving this show, TNT canceled it after five seasons. On the bright side, there's five seasons to watch! Eliot (to the left of the guy in the center—team leader Nate) is my favorite character, closely followed by Parker and Hardison (to the right). Nate and Sophie are kind of whatever, but every fight Eliot gets into makes up for it. If you haven't seen it, you don't understand—but it's awesome. Just trust me.

What are some of your favorite things? Bonus points if you put them into song form.

Dress Drama

This isn't exactly the post I wanted to write. I wanted to write about how I let my bridesmaids (my two sisters, remember?) pick whatever they wanted, how they're going to wear their dresses over and over, and how it was so easy and casual and perfectly coordinating without being too matchy.

Well. It didn't work just like that. But first let's look at my inspiration pictures.




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They look effortless stylish and chic—like they pulled any old dress off the rack. And all of a sudden there they all are, these gorgeous polished bridesmaids in perfectly coordinating dresses.

Looking back at these pictures, it's probably more likely they looked for weeks or even months for their dresses—there was probably some arguments between the girls who had different ideas on what was "stylish" or "coordinating." Some of the girls probably had to pay a little more than they were comfortable with. And unless the bride was really totally ok with whatever the girls chose (which makes her a much better woman than most of us, including me!), there might have been some bridezilla drama going on.

Back in October when I got engaged, I was totally convinced the mismatched bridesmaids dresses would work just by letting my sisters pick whatever they wanted to wear in a shade of the wedding colors. (They also needed to be knee-length and not strapless.)

Three months passed, and we had gotten nowhere. They had looked through hundreds of dresses online, gone dress shopping, and argued back and forth on options. I think there are four reasons for why this technique really didn't work with my sisters:

1. My sisters have very, very different styles. One of my sisters proclaims herself a modern-day hippie and loves crazy bracelets, long skirts, headbands—you get the picture. My other sister is more reserved and prefers simple jeans and a v-neck shirt.

2. They're both tall (over 5' 8") runners, which means they're built like athletes, not tiny gymnasts. This makes finding casual dresses that fit a muscular frame comfortably and still fall to the knee really, really difficult.

3. My wedding colors were "officially" coral and seafoam—but neither of my sisters were really on board with wearing coral. Which was totally fine with me, but seafoam is a really hard color to match. They ended up looking for anything in the "light green" range, but matching "mint" to "meadow" could get into the "almost the same color, but not quite, so they clash" category.

4. My sisters are both younger and still in college. This also means they didn't want to spend a ton on their dresses, and I didn't want them to either!

This post is already long enough, so we'll save the decisions we made until the next post! Any thoughts on how to make mismatched dresses work? What if you have a small bridal party? What about younger bridesmaids?

Monday, January 7, 2013

An Official DIY Post

Somehow, I feel like I have to write a how-to post in order to be a legitimate bride. Ok, I know that's not true. But I'm still excited to write about my biggest project so far—and definitely my favorite.

I told you before about my Scrabble obsession inspiration. I was innocently scrolling through Pinterest when I saw the following picture:


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I loved the idea of labeling the card box with Scrabble letters! Except, as always, I had to take it one, or two, or three steps further. First of all, I wanted them to be made out of wood to mimic as closely as possible the smaller Scrabble letters I had already ordered. Second, I wanted to label all the tables with matching letters. Third, I wanted to make them myself, with a budget of... basically zero dollars.

Originally I was all like "We'll just make the words breakfast and lunch! It will be easy! It will only take us a half hour!" Somehow that morphed into 61 letters of two different sizes and five people spending over fifteen hours combined on the project. Oops.

We wanted to make the following words to label the various tables:

LUNCH
COFFEE
BREAKFAST
GUESTBOOK
GIFTS

We also wanted to use the Scrabble letters as table markers for seating—like table numbers. We're planning on having around fifteen tables, so we needed the letters A through O.

Finally, we wanted to make larger letters (7" by 7") to put on the mantel. We decided on "NATHAN & LAURA" for these letters. After we added up all the letters, we had 49 4" by 4" letters and 12 7" by 7" letters.

After we figured out what we wanted to do and how to do it (we had some issues with spray paint and markers bleeding into the wood and not creating crisp lines), my dad got to work ripping quarter inch plywood into 4" by 4" and 7" by 7" squares. He made a few extra of both, but we ended up only using one extra 4" by 4" square by accident. He sanded the edges and coated them in lacquer so the paint or marker wouldn't bleed along with the grain of the wood.

The wood took a while to dry, so we lined them up along the hallway in our house. When the wood was finally dry, we stacked them on the table along with a really cute Christmas tablecloth... one that we didn't mind getting glue on obviously!


In the pictures the wood looks like it's different colors—this is because the back of the plywood was a slightly different color than the front. We chose to use the lighter side for all of the tiles, so they all look consistent. On the table letters we put the number on both side, so they don't match perfectly. You can't tell unless you put them side by side though!

While we were waiting for the wood to be prepped, we got to work creating our templates. There was no way this girl was going to freehand letters and numbers onto 61 tiles! We used the letters from this site because they were classic and had clean lines. We simply copied and pasted the images into Microsoft Word and resized them to either the 4" by 4" or 7" by 7" size. Then we printed them on cardstock and cut around the edges. I don't have any pictures of this part—but the next thing we did was carefully cut out the letters and numbers using an X-Acto knife. It ended up being really important to make precise cuts, especially on the smaller numbers. You can see where we didn't do a great job with this in the final product. When we were done, the templates looked like this (sitting on top of a finished block of wood):


In order to keep the template in place, we put a thin film of glue stick on the back of the template and pressed down hard along the edges of each letter and number. We found that the glue stick came off pretty easily (as long as you didn't use too much!) and you could use the templates over and over—because we only cut out one template of each letter.

When it came to actually writing on the block of wood, we tried several different things. Spray paint proved to be messy and not entirely precise. Painting the letters individually was time-consuming and again, messy. So when all else fails, use a Sharpie!


Or... eleven Sharpies (and permanent markers). The Sharpies faded quickly writing on the lacquered wood—RIP all the Sharpies that found a quick death in this project! Buying the markers proved to be the most expensive part of the project. My dad already had the wood (he's a construction manager and carpenter) so the only other cost was the cardstock, which again we already had on hand. This would be slightly more expensive if you had to buy wood—for example, here's a 2' by 4' sheet of quarter inch plywood from Lowe's for ten dollars (don't ask me if this is what my dad used, I have no idea...).

Then it was time to go! But first, some Leverage on my laptop (my current favorite show—sadly, TNT canceled Leverage after this season).


By the end of the night, we got into a groove. Nathan would glue the templates onto the wood (like above) and Abigail would trace over the template with a Sharpie. Note: these are actually Nathan's hands before Abigail took over the template tracing!


After the templates had been traced and removed, the letters were still in rough shape. That's when Emily and I would take the letters and slowly trace around the edges or fill in any spots that weren't super clean. This was the hardest part of the project, as seen by the fact that it took two of us to keep up! Here's a shot of us working over halfway through the project—it's past 11:00 here.


Not all of the letters are perfect. Some of them are slightly larger or smaller, and there are definitely little oopsies. But around midnight (on New Years Day) we finished up the project and laid out all of the letters to view our handiwork!


I'm really happy with them. Here's a closeup of the table letters:


My personal favorites are the larger letters spelling out our names. I have a secret ambition to hang these in our house someday!


So did I do ok on my first DIY how-to post ever? What do you think of the letters? Is my obsession officially out of control? (Don't answer that last one.)